Friday, August 27, 2010

Last dance


           A friendship ends after the last dance is done, this is the story of the boy who fall in love to her friend who treats him so special...
          
     Three weeks, after the first sem starts a girl texts the boy saying that she crush him even she has a boyfriend and she also know that the boy is also committed to the other girl. The boy ask "why"? And the girl says "I don't know, but every time I see you  happy I felt more happiness inside of me". Until they become close to each other through text, they talk about many things which is related to each other, they calling each other "mahal qoh" as their call sign and they saying "I love you" both of them as part of their sweetness. At the school their friends notice the different kind of sweetness of the two of them, they sitting beside each other, they caring for each other and having holding hands even in front of their friends. One of their friends give advice to the boy about the relationship between them of the girl, she says "friend,take care of falling in love to her, remember she's committed and they love each other",but he ignore it and says "don't worry about me I will never fall in love with her coz I also committed and she's not the kind of the girl I've searching to be love". The days comes so fast and their bonding gets more sweeter, they supporting each other, they helping each other and they treating both of them so special. The girl felt jealous if the boy is talking with the other girl while the boy always hug and kiss her and he loves to look at the face of the girl every time that they were together. One day the boy felt something new for the girl, he felt that he so happy every time that they were together, and he felt jealous if she talking with the other guy even with her boyfriend. He realize that he already fall in love with the girl, and she didn't know about the feelings of the boy for her but he ask him to leave her alone for a few days, he was wondering but he respect the decision of the girl even though he didn't know the reason. He felt sad and even his studies is affected. Their situation becomes clear to him when his friend tell that the relationship of the girl and her boyfriend was ended.
       
     After a few days he ask the girl to be his partner for their acquaintance party, because he had something to tell for her. He decided to express his feelings for her, but the girl misinterpret what's his talking about, the girl get mad to him and until the day of the acquaintance, she didn't even talk to him. The boy was disappointed on what he says for the girl he tried to explain to the girl but she didn't even listen. The night before the acquaintance party he sent a message for the girl saying that "I'm sorry for what I said but its not exactly what I mean, and I will tell to you tomorrow what I really meant to say". The day of the acquaintance party has come, it starts so boring for him and he can't enjoy the night until he didn't talk with the girl. But he still grant the request of the girl before she get mad to him, in every dance to be performed by the girl he was there to watch her and support her. The time comes so fast and the night comes deeper, but he still not enjoyed the party, until heard his favorite sentimental song titled "di lang ikaw". This beautiful song gives him a chance to tell his feelings for the girl, he stand up from the table and decide to find the girl to ask her for a dance, when he saw the girl she's already dancing together with their friends. He walk to the direction of the girl, he requested to her partner to take his place and he will take a dance for the girl, his friend agree and said good luck. The song is already at the chorus when they dance together. It is the time to make the night memorable for both of them, the boy smile and ask "are you still mad at me"? and the girl also smile and said "forget about it and lets enjoy the party", meaning she says no I'm not, so he start his speech to express his feelings to her "do you know what I really meant to say for in the night that I'm asking you to be my partner for this party"? the boy says, the girl look at the boy's face and say "no", he was nervous and he breath so deep and says "I'm already fall in love with you" but before he continue to speak he saw the girl smiling he ask "why are you smiling"? she says nothing so he think that he has a chance to be with the girl as his girlfriend but the girl continue and says "but I'm more happy if we remain as friends". the boy was surprised for what he heard and he only replied "OK" and he remains quiet until the song ends. After that night the girl has changed and their friendship becomes cold. And the last time that they talk is when they are together in the sea side together with their friends, he ask the girl to give him a chance to prove that he really love her but suddenly she rejected him which makes him fell sad and walk through the rain while he looking at the dark sky, he fell that he needs to cry but he didn't want it to do.
        
     Until now were not OK our friendship lost in just a blink of an eye and its hard for me to accept this situation, but she trash our friendship just like a non sense thing which the reason of hating her. But I still love her, I really love her but one thing about that even though I love her "I don't need her".

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Great celebration

             My most unforgettable party that I've been attended is our graduation party when I'm in high school. Maybe it's not an ideal party for other people, but for me it's the best celebration for my graduation. it's only a simple celebration which led by our class president and by the cooperation of all of us in section narra the star section of our school. We start the celebration in the school at two o'clock in the afternoon, a few of our classmate was not attend on our celebration but majority of us was there wearing our customized t-shirt which exclusive for our section only that indicates we're craziest idiots, wackiest students but certified genius. by means of our class fund we rent a videoke for that  celebration, and the other money is for our food, props for the celebration and the price for the game which prepared by the class officers. They prepared a box which has an item inside and the box was covering by many layers of wrappers and every layer of wrap has an question which related on our class, happening, most unforgettable experience and many more about us. And the rule is once they call your name you should answer the question in the box, so that the wrap will be removed, but once they call your name you have no chance to get the price, in short the last student will be called is the one who can get the price. That game was exciting because every question makes everyone laugh and remind us the "wackiest" activity  we've shared together inside and outside of the school. That game began at laugh and ends also with laugh, after that game a exclusive award for everyone of us was given by the class officers, because each of us portray different role in our class. when i received my award, I laughed because the ribbon indicates that I am the most naughty in our class. After the awarding some of our classmates started to sing while the others are started to eat. it's already five o'clock when we stopped  the celebration at the school, but all of us continue the celebration. But before we go we take pictures together with our beloved adviser, after taking pictures we decided to go at the house of our classmate. while we are in the vehicle I began to sing our favorite song which is "Ang huling El bimbo" by our favorite band the eraser heads, then my classmates followed to sing. We are so noisy while we are on our way going to the house of our classmate.
           We just say goodbye to each other, while some of our classmates are singing and taking picture. It's my first time to drink alcoholic liquior and it's the happiest part of our celebration. Everyone was enjoyed the night because it's the last time that we laugh together, sing together and having picture taking together. And the hardest thing we did that night is to say goodbye and I will miss you for each of us, because it's hard to say those words to a friend like them, who makes you laugh everyday and makes you realize that it so beautiful to live in this world if you have friends like them, they care for you, they accept you on what you are and they teach you how to cooperate in terms of examinations and quizzes.
            That celebration is my last "wacky" activity that I've shared for my high school classmates only I can say is I treasure the memories that we're happy together. And everytime I remember them only one reaction comes to me which is to smile. I have no regret that they are my friends inside and outside of the school.

Friday, August 20, 2010

 Equal treats for individual 
(being rich and being poor) 


           We cannot choose what kind of life that we should live, every individual is destined to the different kind of lifestyle. There are people who destined to become rich and there are people also destined to become poor, its not our choice, and no one should be blame in this kind of situation except the destiny. Having different of lifestyle is easy to be understand by some people but having unequal treats for individual by means of lifestyle discrimination is another story.

          Being rich has a big difference from being poor, they are separated by the word "money". Simple word right? But it can manipulate one's choice, control one's mind, change one belief and change one's decision. In other words being rich has a big advantage in changing result of a competition just like the justice in our country. The symbol of justice is a girl that has a handkerchief in her eyes which refers for equal treat in terms in our justice they weigh the situation according to the evidence not on what one's in our society, but some people says that our justice is not only blind but sometimes it is also a depth, it cannot hear other opinion or reason to prove that they are innocent justice is divided into two, the justice for the rich and the justice for the poor we cannot deny the fact that some rich people are not punish even they have been made a crime because they have money to get a good lawyer to defend their side. Aside from that they can also use their money as a tip for many reason such as witness and having influence in other people. They have freedom to defend their self that they are innocent according to their plans, they can manipulate  the situation, they can make the other side's witness remain silent and they can win the case by means of their money. Unlike the justice for poor their lawyer is a public lawyer, and their only steps that can be done is to cooperate and wait which the saddest part is until their case will be close even though its unsolved. Theres a big different between the justice for the rich and justice for the poor right? And its clear that theres no equal treat between rich and poor in terms of justice in our country.

          Even there's a big difference between rich and poor there's also some similarities about them. All of us has a right even your rich or your poor, we have rights to live, rights to educate, rights to be happy and rights to express our emotions about our government by means of voting or choosing leader through  election, no one can ease our rights its in our selves since we're in the womb of our beloved mother until we meet the real meaning  or death.

          Having a lifestyle discrimination is unfair for those people who suffering this kind of situation compare to the population of rich people, populations of the poor people in our country is very high it means there are so many people who suffering lifestyle discrimination in our society. They all have need is respect and equal treat for everyone, its not big thing to ask right? But why it didn't wont to give for poor people.    


Monday, August 16, 2010

EDUCATION: Progress of our country

      Some said that education is the key to success, being educated has a big attribute to develop our country into a successful country.
      
     According to my research in the internet education has divided in two senses , in the largest sense it,s any act or experience that has a formative effect on  mind, character or physical ability of an individual and in technical sense, education is the process by which society deliberately transmits its accumulated knowledge,skills and values from one generation to another. It has a great role for an individual to do his part as a countrymen when comes up with the progress of our country. As of now the quality of education we have is not enough to having progress in our country. The reason of this is because of having improper ratio on the population of the students against the population of the teachers. There are schools in our country suffering this kind of problem , a teacher is teaching 50 students in a section, in this situation the teacher can't handle  his class properly so that the quality of education is also affected. Another problem cause by the improper ratio on the population of the students against the population of the teachers in our country is the time consumed by the teachers  in teaching. Our government is the one who responsible in term of the quality of education according to Lin Zhou and Chen Chen of Beijing, China, participants pointed out that the responsible subject to promote the balanced development of compulsory educations the government, whose responsibilities include over all planning, policy,development, funds input, effective management and so on. At the same time the governmental responsibilities is not unlimited. In the market economy , the government is in a period of transformation in which it's function are also changing . One of the responsibility of the government gives fund to the Department of Education (Dep Ed) for them to budget it in many aspects such as for the books,computers and learning materials that can be used by the students for their studies. Aside of giving funds to Dep Ed our government should increase the salary of teachers and give other intensives for them, so that we can avoid the problem cause of having improper ratio on the population of the students against the population of  teachers in our country, because of many graduated teacher are going to the other country to find job, but not as a teacher instead being a domestic helper. The salary increase for the teachers is worthy because they have a great role in term of progress of our country they prepare the students for their future, but even them is not agree to the plan of  Dep Ed to add another more two years in the curriculum of education in our country, they believed that it's not the answer into the problem about the quality of education we have, the real answer to solve our problem and having progress in our country by means of education is to have a high quality education in our country.

      
      If you are also believed in the sayings "Education is the key to success" well you must use it as your big objective in life to become a succesful man. To get a better eduacation, it's the big fact that"it's not on your school, it's yours".